More trianing? really?

Can any one give me a real reason why we try to train everybody that crosses the door and walks the ile? why we try to institutionalize everything? we talk about missional, organic, blablabla... yet we try to put out practices inside of a box. Why are we still sending M's like if we were in colonial times? Why are we so uncomfortable and afraid of letting go our stupid control? are we interested in transformation or in manipulating through power? why we love and seek to have a uniform at our churches but we hardly seek unity? Why forms and liturgy are more important than mercy, love and people?